Your karma is mainly with things you did not choose.
But because you are focused on “YOU” (how you feel about every little thing that happens), you are lost in the maze – of emotion and attached to its limitation.
Your species, your gender, your country and social circumstances are all things YOU did not choose, they were chosen for you – by the planets (beings of light – Lord Vishnu) based on your karma. So, please get straight about this!
If got attach to things or people around us means we are very emotional. So how we can lead practical life all the time.